5.28.2009
Living in the Kingdom
5.26.2009
Mission Trip Meeting
Free Car Wash!!!
5.21.2009
Young Anorexics
About 2.5 million Americans suffer from anorexia. Shay Fuell was only nine years old when the fixation began.
“(I) was starting to have body-image issues and looking in the mirror sideways and just pinching my skin seeing if there was fat there,” she says.
A few years later, she was 5-feet-2 and weighed 78 pounds.
“Literally, it becomes [a part of] every thought … in your head,” she says. “You can’t think about anything else. You can’t concentrate on anything. You can’t even hold a conversation with somebody because you are thinking about the last meal that you ate or what you should be doing to work out or how you’re going to be able to throw up without anybody knowing.”
According to the Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality, the number of girls under the age of 12 hospitalized for eating disorders has more than doubled since 1999.
Teens All Thumbs When Texting and Driving
Driving while text messaging or fiddling with an MP3 player is dangerous -- even more hazardous than talking on a cell phone, a new study shows.
Researchers at Eastern Virginia Medical School and Children’s Hospital of the King’s Daughters in Norfolk enlisted 21 teens between the ages of 16 and 18 to take part in a series of simulated driving experiments.
Each teen sat in the bucket seat of a simulated car, driving the vehicle through simulated scenery, in rural, then urban settings in 10-minute time blocks.
First they drove through the virtual scenes without distractions of any kind. Then they drove through the same scenes while text messaging, while talking on a cell phone, and finally while operating an MP3 music player, Donald Lewis, MD, chief of Eastern Virginia Medical School’s department of pediatrics and co-researcher, tells WebMD.
The findings, although not surprising, were frightening, Lewis says.
Adult TV for kids means earlier sex as teens
5 Drugs Kids Steal Most Often From Parents
You may unwittingly be a big source of prescription drugs your teen is using. And more often than not, medicine cabinets are their go-to spot of choice.
The Partnership For a Drug-Free America's latest survey has 61 percent of teens reporting prescription drugs are easier to get than illegal drugs, up significantly from 56 percent in 2005. And 41 percent of teens mistakenly believe abuse of medicines is less dangerous than abuse of illegal street drugs.
"One out of every two Americans is on prescription medication. So these drugs are readily available,"CBS News Medical Correspondent Dr. Jennifer Ashton told co-anchor Maggie Rodriguez on The Early Show Thursday. "People think they're safe because they're prescribed by a doctor, and more and more teens are turning to the medicine closet to get their drugs of use and abuse."
Ashton went through the five classes of prescription drugs kids get most often in their own homes:
Is America "Christian" any more?
5.20.2009
Dan Brown’s America
The movie treatment of his novel, “Angels and Demons,” is cleaning up at the box office this week. The sequel to “The DaVinci Code,” due out in November, might buoy the publishing industry through the recession. And if you want to understand the state of American religion, you need to understand why so many people love Dan Brown.
It isn’t just that he knows how to keep the pages turning. That’s what it takes to sell a million novels. But if you want to sell a 100 million, you need to preach as well as entertain — to present a fiction that can be read as fact, and that promises to unlock the secrets of history, the universe and God along the way.
Brown is explicit about this mission. He isn’t a serious novelist, but he’s a deadly serious writer: His thrilling plots,he’s said, are there to make the books’ didacticism go down easy, so that readers don’t realize till the end “how much they are learning along the way.” He’s working in the same genre as Harlan Coben and James Patterson, but his real competitors are ideologues like Ayn Rand, and spiritual gurus like Eckhart Tolle and Deepak Chopra. He’s writing thrillers, but he’s selling a theology.
5.19.2009
Why the president’s Notre Dame speech should hearten lifers . . . a little.
Obama himself, of course, is a cause for short-term pessimism: His policies have so far been true to his pre-presidential record, and there is every reason to expect they will continue to be. And that he can often clothe his substantive extremism in the garb of rhetorical moderation — that he can step back and describe the controversy with apparent distance even as he himself pulls hard for one side — further strengthens his cause in the fight.
But his speech should leave pro-lifers optimistic, because it illustrates the transformation of the abortion debate over the past 15 years. Put simply, defenders of the Roe regime seem incapable of making a case for themselves, and when they reach for the vocabulary of American liberal democracy in an effort to make some kind of argument, they end up closer to the case for their opponents.
5.15.2009
Praise God!
5.14.2009
5.13.2009
The faith of Abraham
Gender Wars
A perfect illustration of this confusion is found on the May 12, 2009 op-ed page ofThe New York Times. There, along with articles by the paper's own columnists, was an article by Jennifer Finney Boylan, a professor of English at Colby College in Maine.
Professor Boylan argues that we should just accept and celebrate "the elusiveness of gender" and see the most difficult questions about gender as "sometimes unanswerable."
5.12.2009
Is narcissism on the upswing in the young? Studies disagree
In her new book, The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement, psychologist Jean Twenge of San Diego State University and co-author W. Keith Campbell of the University of Georgia say research shows more young people today have "narcissistic traits" than in previous generations. Such traits, Twenge says, include a very positive and inflated sense of self, which is illustrated by a preoccupation with MySpace, Facebook and YouTube.
Is Your Kid a Video-Game Addict?
Are nearly 10 percent of kids and teenagers who play video games showing signs of addiction? That’s the word from a report in the journal Psychological Science, which says that 8.5 percent of the 1,178 kids ages 8 to 18 who were randomly sampled by a 2007 Harris poll showed at least 6 of 11 addiction symptoms.
But don’t trash the Xbox just yet. First of all, the addiction symptoms included skipping household chores or homework to play, playing games to escape problems, and lying about length of playing time. If that’s true, I’m definitely addicted to reading, because I’ll happily evade vacuuming and other unpleasant aspects of life by burying my nose in a book. And who hasn’t lied when asked about staying up last night surfing Craigslist or checking out Facebook? It’s a great question, particularly since today marks the beginning of Turnoff Week, a time to consider life without video.
Study: Nearly half of high schoolers have been hazed
As in college, high school hazing pervaded groups from sports teams to the yearbook staff and performing arts, according to professors Elizabeth Allan and Mary Madden of the University of Maine's College of Education and Human Development.
The hazing included activities from silly stunts to drinking games, with 8% of the students drinking to the point of getting sick or passing out, they said.
5.08.2009
Why tween girls are finally covering up
Why are tweens no longer aspiring to dress like Britney? One reason is that in response to criticism from concerned parents, many tween entertainment properties are now featuring more innocent (and wacky) looks. As such, tweens are seeing their role models wearing cardigans instead of tube tops and they want to do the same. Additionally, tweens these days are much closer to their parents and are hyper-conscious of anything that could upset them.
Teens on Social Networks
Making friends is important, but the experience not always positive.
Young people are going online more than ever before, and many are using social networks.
eMarketer estimates that in 2009, 15.5 million US Internet users ages 12 to 17, or 75%, will use social networks.
As an addendum to this story, I would highly recommend that parents sit down with your teen or pre-teen child and explore their social networking page, if they have one. Teens are getting into trouble at school and at work for information and pictures that are showing up on their social networking websites, and I think a lot of that could be avoided if parents took the time to discuss the benefits and dangers of social networking sites like Myspace and Facebook. Even in my high school days, stupid decisions were only known to those who participated in them. Now, teens are showing a tendency to post their stupid decisions (often via picture form) on their Myspace or Facebook pages, available for all to see. There are potentially deleterious effects on scholastic and employment pursuits for posting lewd or otherwise inappropriate behavior online. Admissions departments at various universities are now starting to peruse prospective students' social networking activities as an aid in determining the student's suitability for admission, and employers are doing the same. A Philadelphia Eagles employee was fired last off-season for making disparaging remarks on his Facebook page about the organization for not re-signing fan favorite free safety Brian Dawkins.
Be involved in one of the most important aspects of your teenagers life! Check their social networking pages and read their text messages. You aren't being overly intrusive if you do so, regardless of what they may say in protest. You are simply parenting, which is what you signed up for when you decided to bring new life into this world. Don't feel like a secret service agent for investigating what is going on in your teen's life. Your primary responsibility as a parent is to provide for and protect your children, not to give them autonomous freedom. This especially applies to younger teens, who often lack the experience and judgment to make proper decisions without parental involvement.
How Abercrombie & Fitch is losing its cool
To the dismay of the Abercrombie & Fitch empire, teenagers whose parents have cut back on their allowances may be coming to a recessionary revelation: Paying $90 for torn jeans isn't that cool anymore.
While other retailers are responding to the downturn with red-lined price tags and tempting promotions, upscale Abercrombie & Fitch isn't budging on its price points. This scarf, for example, will still cost you $58. The company is fiercely protecting its image as a "premium" brand, and, as a result, it's getting snubbed big time by its once cultlike, ever-loyal fan base.
Most American Christians Do Not Believe that Satan or the Holy Spirit Exist
The survey explored beliefs about spiritual beings, the influence of faith on their life, views of the Bible, and reactions to faiths other than their own.
The Barna survey asked questions about God, Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit, Satan, and demons. All 1,871 self-described Christians were asked about their perception of God. In total, three-quarters (78%) said he is the “all-powerful, all-knowing Creator of the universe who rules the world today.” The remaining one-quarter chose other descriptions of God – depictions that are not consistent with biblical teaching (e.g., everyone is god, god refers to the realization of human potential, etc.).